According to the latest census data, 1.8 million men are single dads. And 32 percent of men with wives in the workforce said they were regularly caring for their children under age 15 (an increase of 6 percent over respondents in 2002). With these kinds of statistics, it seems like America has truly embraced fatherhood, but if you ask these active dads, many of them will say that they are still viewed with suspicion by the courts and by other parents.

For dad's seeking custody of a child in divorce or renegotiating an existing child custody arrangement, demonstrating involvement in the child's life is essential.

  • How often do you take your child to activities and classes?
  • How often do you prepare your child's meals or put him or her to bed?
  • Do you and your child share a special hobby, sport or interest?
  • Do you know your child's friends?
  • Do you help with homework?

More than ever dads can answer these questions affirmatively. Although many people still believe dads always get the short end of the stick in child custody, that's not the case.

"Working Mother" magazine reported that in contested custody cases in which the father seeks sole custody, he prevails at least 50 percent of the time. And the number of fathers awarded joint or primary child custody has doubled in the last decade.

While moms are still more likely to get primary custody, dads who want a larger role are more likely than ever to get it.

Source: Huffington Post and Mainstreet.com